We live in a pathologically dissatisfied world. And I'm going to tell you why. Because we love to compare.

Go around the world and discover that people aren't happy with their bodies. Filipinos want to be fair-complexioned like Westerners and so buy bleaching stuff.

Westerners want to own bronzed bodies like ours and so purchase tanning lotions. Those with moles have them removed, while those who don't strategically implant beauty spots.

Some people want to shed a few pounds to look like Ally McBeal, while others want to gain some baby fat to look like Drew Barrymore.

When are we ever going to stop and simply be happy with how we look? We live in a sick world, I tell you. And that sickness is comparisonitis.

Take a look at wealth.

When we drive our old Honda, it really suits us fine.
We feel blessed in fact when the rain pours outside and we feel snug and cozy on its faded upholstered seats.

But the moment we see our own office mate (or neighbor, or buddy, or cousin, or brother) drive his sleek sky-blue, four-door, four- wheel- drive Mercedez, we automatically feel like third-class children of God.

Next time we drive our bumpy, noisy, rusted, dilapidated Honda,(notice how all the defects come out all of a sudden?), we feel deprived, dispossessed, pariah, debased and only a little higher than the insects of the earth.

Listen carefully.

Bill Gates total assets are worth $60 billion. That's more than the GNP of some small countries. Tiger Woods earns $80 million simply by smiling on TV in a Nike shirt. And the stars of the sitcom Friends are paid $750,000 per episode!

My point?

No matter how hard you work, there'll still be some people who will be richer than you are. And there'll be some people who will be more beautiful, have more sex appeal, have more boyfriends and have more problems.

Try it for once. Stop looking around. Don't compare! Don't compare her nose with your nose. Don't compare his wife with your wife. Don't compare his salary with your salary. Don't compare her breast size with your breast size. Don't compare her kids report card with your kids report card. Don't compare his prayer group with your prayer group. Don't compare her cellulite deposits with your cellulite deposits.

For crying out loud, Stop comparing and Start living! And you'll be happier with your life. The most difficult thing in the world is to be who you are not. Pretending and trying to be someone else is the official pastime of the human race.

And the easiest thing in the world is to be yourself. Be happy. Live! There must be a reason why God made you tall or short or fat or thin or bumpy all over. Love who you are!

Be happy, it's not that difficult!

I think today I am going to talk about on how to stay young...  Might come in useful to some of you out there...

1) Throw out non-essential numbers. This includes age, weight and height.  Let the doctors worry about them. That is why you pay "them" !

2) Don't grouch..it only pulls you downnnn...

3) Keep learning. Learn more about the computers, crafts, gardening..watever. Never let the brain goes idle.. An Idle mind is the devil's workship. And the devil's name is Alzheimers.

4) Enjoy the simple things..

5) Laugh often, long and loud. Laugh until you gasp for breath.

6) The tears happen..endure, grieve.. and move on. The only person who is with us our entire life.. is ourselves. Be ALIVE while you are still alive.

7) Surround yourself with what you love. Whether it's family, pets, keepsakes, music, hobbies..watever. Your home is your refuge.

8) Cherish your health. If it is good, preserve it. If it is unstable, improve it. If it is beyond what you can improve.. go and get help.

9) Don't take guilt trips. Take a trip to the mall, even to the next country, to a a foreign country but NOT to where the guilt is.

10) Tell the people you love, that you love them...   at every opportunnity.

and remember... life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but rather by the moments that take our breath away...